Beating is usually considered as violence. But there are other forms like insulting you, or neglecting you which are also called violence. You are not one of the few, but one of the many women who are battered. It is hard for us to accept that violence can happen within the family. We tend to go by common sayings. If violence is repetitive, you will need to help yourself. There are many options. You can use the law or go to the police.